Changes/Epiphanies and Life

Changing is a never ending human phenomena. I was talking to someone today about an epiphany I had that was so profound that I couldn't explain it correctly. So much for that right? Not necessarily, Just because I couldn't articulate it doesn't make it any less of a life changing event. Or maybe one small event added with others that make it one. One in particular is balance. In trying to have balance in my life (always being distracted by circumstance) I was realizing I wasn't getting real balance because I was only trying to balance what I chose. Not the reality of what life is. Another was taking my own inventory on what I thought the necessary evils were in my life. Necessary evils are the epitome of balance! Death vs. life, love vs. hate, change vs. stagnation, liberal vs. conservative...  How I change is what defines me as a person. Do I change gracefully, forcefully, reluctantly, grudgingly...? The answers are only stepping stones to the next change with no real destination in sight except greater changes perhaps. The goal is to be the best I can be within the parameters I define for self. Even those change so...?